couldn't have said it better myself.

I love Kate's writing over at sweet|salty. Her latest entry, though, had me nodding my head in agreement.

For all you new dads (or soon-to-be) out there: I know you get the short end of the stick in a lot of ways. Everyone asks how Mom and Baby are. Not a lot of people ask how you are. It's a tough spot to be in. But the secret is, you have the opportunity to be the unsung hero.

Here's how.

And I feel lucky enough that my husband, Ben's dad, is one of the good guys.